Officiating
and Conflicts of Interest
We
have a real good sense of fairness and we know there are lines we just
shouldn’t cross and we don’t.
The
problem is that this varies from official to official.
Some
of the obvious ones that more experienced officials recognize but others might
not:
·
We don’t
have friendly conversations with one team or coach and not the other.
·
We don’t
chat it up with the home team crowd at half time or pre game.
·
We don’t
officiate teams with our family members in them (unless there’s an emergency
situation).
·
We don’t
officiate games at our club or high school if we have played there in the past
5 years or so.
·
We don’t
respond to a team or coach calling you by your first name if they know you.
But
what about:
·
Your
girlfriend is the assistant coach of the team or the team’s coach is your
sister’s boyfriend.
·
You’re a former
member of the club where you had a well-known conflict which resulted in burnt
bridges.
·
You’re doing a
playoff game for a team in a tournament which you just saw once or twice in the
pool play.
·
You used to
play for the team and the coach cut you from the team (or some form of that
scenario)
·
You tell
jokes or laugh during half time so the fans and coaches think u may be laughing
at them
Conflict
of interest policies are protective, not punitive, and an official should
remove himself or not accept any assignments, which can be perceived as a
conflict, and otherwise avoid any of the ones
mentioned above.
Ethics
of integrity are NOT being disputed there, and those are a complete and
separate issue and discussion. You are likely to be very good at foul
discrimination and judgment and game management. Officials will argue
their “fairness” over a perceived conflict.
But,
Perception is reality….
You,
or another official you know, or a game you may have been a team member on, may
have made, or would make, a perfectly correct, but controversial call, which
could be PERCEIVED as scandalous and would call into question your
integrity. You would need to consistently defend it, even though it was
the right call(s).
It’s
impossible to think that you shouldn’t officiate games that affect people you
may be acquainted with or even know personally, as if that were the case, you
may not be able to officiate at all any longer. At all levels of the
game, officials come into contact with the same players and coaches on a
regular basis.
Not
all “specific” standards are all encompassing. You can’t possibly
identify every relationship that would lead to an embarrassment or a
conflict. Again, some are obvious. Others are not.
YOU
have to judge that if it may be PERCEIVED that you are partial in ANY way, you
need to inform the parties. If they do not object AND there is no alternative,
then go ahead and officiate the game. Even still, you may subject
yourself to certain criticism both during and after the contest that is
unfounded, yet still going to be there.
I
have PERSONALLY witnessed:
·
An official
reffing his dad’s game where his brother played, too.
He was making good calls and doing a good overall job, until ONE controversial
decision led to an uproar from the opposing team and called into question
everything he had done. Parents of the opposing team did not want to hear
about it. The coach’s son was obviously making calls for his dad’s favor,
they said.
·
An
official’s son was the A/R and did NOT call an offside (on the father’s team)
that not only resulted in a goal, but an injured goalkeeper as a result of the
“non-call.” This was a u-12 game.
·
An official
called a fair game between two seemingly neutral teams, when it was discovered
he had previous (severed) ties to that team’s club and now all of a sudden he
was calling the game unfairly.
·
Officials
chatting it up with one coach that he knew and the other team’s coach saying, “well I guess we have no chance today since that coach is his
buddy.”
When
my integrity as an official is challenged, I am quick to remind the dissenting
player or coach that I could CARE LESS WHO WINS. I once did a game in New
Orleans where the coach called me a “homer.” It was my first time in New
Orleans and I obviously don’t live there.
We
get into enough conflicts during any and all games. Let’s make sure that
we don’t give them something else to create an embarrassing situation or
PERCEIVED conflict of interest.
If
you have any other specific instances of conflict of interests, please feel
free to share those and I’ll update this memo for all to see and read.
*Written
with notes from NFHS Quarterly Magazine